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How to Tell if You’re a Boomer

Several months ago, someone on the Oak Cliff (Texas) Boomers Facebook page posted this lead-in. Here are some of the responses, including a few of my own.

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…  someone asks “What time is it?” and you immediately think “It’s Howdy Doody time!”

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… you receive advertisements from senior retirement centers and funeral homes on a regular basis.

…  you brush more teeth outside of your mouth than inside.

… you go out on Saturday night for dinner and dancing and you’re home by 10:30.

… you get senior discounts almost everywhere and you don’t even have to ask!

… you know the words to “Green Acres” and can whistle Andy’s theme song.

… you start wearing granny panties.

… you regularly receive mail from AARP and the Social Security Administration.

… your makeup brand includes the words lift, renew, rewind, or age.

… you hear the William Tell Overture and you immediately think “The Lone Ranger.”

… you hear yourself say the words “I remember when that only cost _____” (fill in the blank.)

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So, what do you think? How do you know you’re a Boomer?

Photos:

Howdy Doody & Bob Smith: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Buffalo_Bob_Smith_and_Howdy_Doody.jpg

I took the photo of the gas station sign in Santa Barbara, California, on 27 Feb 2013

Book Review: LEAVING CHEYENNE

LeavingCheyenneAI’ve recently reread Larry McMurtry’s Leaving Cheyenne–for the third or fourth time. As I closed the book, I stopped and wondered, “What is it about this book that I find so appealing?” The action is slow, the setting is not exotic, the characters don’t do anything exceptional. I was raised in Dallas, as were my parents, so that explains why I opened a book set in Texas in the first place. (Leaving Cheyenne is not about a city in Wyoming.) But the story takes place in cattle country, and I’m a city girl. I finally decided—it’s got to be the characters.

Leaving Cheyenne is the story of best friends Gideon Fry, Johnny McCloud, and Molly Taylor and their lifelong love triangle. Part One, told in Gid’s point of view, begins in about 1920 when he’s 18 or 19 years old. Gid’s widowed dad owns a ranch and raises cattle, and he tries to teach his son to be a serious, hardworking rancher too. For example, when Gid buys a saddle for Johnny in return for a favor, his dad says, “You’re giving a hundred-and-fifty-dollar saddle to a thirty-dollar-a-month cowboy. That wouldn’t make sense to a crazy man. And it sure don’t to me.”

Part Two is told in Molly’s viewpoint and takes place about twenty years later during World War II. Throughout the book, Gid and Johnny vie for Molly’s affections, but she won’t marry either one. Instead, she marries Eddie, a ne’er do well. But she has a son and Gid is the father. Later she has a second son, fathered by Johnny. Referring to Johnny, Molly narrates: I was the only woman Johnny has ever been able to count on, and I usually tried to give him what he needed—it wouldn’t have been very loving of me not to. Molly is widowed when her husband Eddie is killed in an oilfield accident.

In Part Three, Johnny narrates. Another twenty years have passed by then, and he and Gid are still friends, now in their early sixties. Gid is a successful rancher; Johnny is still his hired hand. Gid has become even more serious than he was as a young man (he has turned into his father), while Johnny is still easy-going and enjoys life. Both still love Molly, and she still loves both of them yet she refuses to marry either one, saying, Eddie was enough husband for me.

Throughout the book, the three friends take care of each other, their friendship strong. When Gid is ill, Molly nurses him back to health. Both men help Molly through the rough patches in her life. Altogether, the poignant story of the lifelong relationship between these three strong people spans more than forty years.

In spite of their human foibles, these fictional folks share a vast supply of a rare commodity—common sense. Yes, they make stupid mistakes. But their errors are understandable and spring from a kind of logic. In addition to Larry McMurtry’s beautiful writing, maybe that’s what makes the characters seem so real and appealing, and why I read Leaving Cheyenne one more time.

Notes:

You’ll need to know the definition of one word if you decide to read McMurtry’s books. Tank. In this context it’s not a war vehicle, nor is it a large receptacle for holding liquid (like a gas tank in your car). It’s a manmade pond, created to provide water for cattle.

There is at least one politically incorrect passage in this book. However, it reflects the attitudes of the time and place of the book’s setting.

Larry McMurtry is the author of more than three dozen books, including Lonesome Dove (Pulitzer Prize winner), Terms of Endearment, as well as the screenplay for the movie “Brokeback Mountain.” Leaving Cheyenne was written in 1962.

Boomer Home Decorating

Few things make a more obvious personal statement than one’s home décor. Furniture style, fabric choice, and colors say so much about a person—her lifestyle, interests, level of sophistication. But it’s our choice of artwork and accessories that really add sparkle and personality to a living space. Of course, these items have varied over the years. For example, I once decorated with …

Macrame_OwlsMACRAME

Comprised of artfully arranged knots, at least one macramé creation graced each room in my first apartment. Macrame plant hangers dangled by the window over the kitchen sink, a macramé divider studded with wooden beads separated the living room from the dining area, and macramé owls adorned the wall over my bookcase. I became quite adept at knotting.

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CHIANTI BOTTLE CANDLES

How many hours did I spend with friends, singing folk songs by the light of a candle stuck into an empty Chianti bottle? Too many to count! It was a badge of honor to have one of these raffia-covered wine bottles coated with waxy drips sitting on a dining room table—the thicker the wax, the better. We could even buy special candles that would drip in a wide spectrum of colors!

BRICK AND BOARD BOOKCASES

Brick and board bookcases were almost a requirement among my friends. Housing textbooks from college and well-thumbed paperbacks, they also might be a place to put one’s hi-fi stereo and record album collection (depending on the sturdiness of the boards).

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BIG MOUTH BILLY BASS

Does anyone remember seeing advertisements for these wall plaques on late night TV? According to Wikipedia, the singing fish’s repertoire included “Don’t Worry, Be Happy” (the music was taken from the original Bobby McFerrin recording) and “Take Me To The River” by Al Green.  If you’d like to experience this musical decorating phenomenon again, here’s a link to a YouTube video of one of Billy Bass’s performances: Billy Bass Singing
(No, I never really had one of these!)

What decorative items have graced your walls over the years?

PHOTO CREDITS:
Macrame Owls
Big Mouth Billy Bass
Chianti Candle
(Photo posted with permission from Cheri Dietzman, from her blog “The Cottage.” Visit her blog for more photos and decorating ideas.)